As you head into the holiday season, the most important thing is to stay positive! Change is never easy — especially when it’s something as big as a divorce. But that shouldn’t take away from the holiday season. The holidays are about taking time for the things that matter, whether that’s seeing your extended family or taking some time off from work. Just remember that you deserve to enjoy the holidays! 

If you had old holiday traditions that were created with your ex, try something new this year! Instead of thinking about what you’re missing out on, create new traditions with your family and friends. If you have children in 

From spending the day at a spa to doing something that brings you joy, pay extra attention to finding ways to boost your mood and alleviate any stress. The stress of the holidays and planning around family and friends can be overwhelming. But when it comes to coping with your divorce and celebrating the holidays, it’s important to take that time for yourself and go easy on yourself! 

If you already know that the holidays are going to look different for you due to an ongoing divorce, don’t wait until the last minute to make plans. Be deliberate in what you want to do and reach out to your friends or family early. Let them know that you want to see them over the holidays. If you have your plans made ahead of time, you can go into the holiday season knowing that you have a clear plan and will be able to spend some time with the people that matter the most to you!